I Cannot Get My Ex Girlfriend Back or Can I

If you are thinking, Can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back then the breakup probably was not so devastating that you think the relationship cannot be saved.  You will have to hope she feels the same way. If any hurt was caused during the split that you should apologize for, now is the time to say you are sorry. Being sorry and sincerely showing it is a good first step.  

Can I get my ex girlfriend back by showing my sensitive side?  

The odds for getting her back will more and more in your favor when you do things right, but there is no guarantee. Show her how much you miss her, and how sorry you are.  Just pay attention to what she does. If your gestures of sorrow makes her angry and if she throws away the roses or something dramatic like that, for example change your method until you find that something she responds to.

If flowers or cards frustrate her, for example, maybe that is because it is easy to pick up the phone and order flowers or buy a card someone else wrote.  Instead you should try putting yourself in her place and try to figure out something more appealing. Buy a blank card and write your own verse in it.  It does not have to rhyme, in fact it is better if it does not.  You should honestly express how you feel for her.  Or pick flowers and present her with a bouquet you put together yourself.

A common complaint among women is that men are not thoughtful.  Were you thoughtful during the relationship?  Now you might be wondering, can I get my ex girlfriend back by being thoughtful?  Not necessarily, but it is another step toward your goal of getting her back.  Every positive thing stacks up, that makes it easier and easier for her to come back to you. Do not expect it all to happen right away, though.

She will probably doubt the things you do now, if you spent your relationship rarely doing thoughtful things, or you only did them in the beginning.  Just be patient, and keep up your efforts. Do not appear frustrated or angry. Do the thoughtful things because it feels good to make her happy, not because you are working toward a goal.

Can I get my ex girlfriend back by dating other women?

If the breakup happend along time ago, and you are still working on being thoughtful, a casual date seems harmless and may make her wish she was your date, but go too far and it could backfire.

Can I get my ex girlfriend back if she has a boyfriend?

If you can show her that she will be happier with you than the new boyfriend you have a good chance, but the odds are against it.  You keeping being thoughtful will go a long way toward showing her that. Even if it seems hopeless, do not give up.

If it appears she is moved on, still send her a card you wrote just wishing her a great week.  But do not look as if you have any expectations.  Your thoughtfulness might really impress her.

One other thing my friend, the points made above, are only just one step in the equation of getting your true love back. The important thing is to have a step by step plan that will lead you in your heartfelt pursuit.

Frankly, that is what I did when my true love dumped me. I followed a plan authored by T 'Dub' Jackson. When my cause was almost hopeless and I was dieing inside, it hauled me up by my bootstraps and helped me get my life's love back. It's called "The Magic of Making Up" and you can check it out at: www.magicofmakingup.com.